Difficulty attaching trailers despite lowering suspension 1.47 Beta

[INSTG8R]

I have tried multiple times to try to hook up to the heavy load low boy with both front and rear suspension lowered but still can't attach and just end up pushing the trailer around.
I am fine with trailers requiring "extra steps" but they just aren't working.
Not sure my log file in this case will help as I keep loading back before I accept the load and have tried multiple times to try to take it again with no luck